Thursday, November 30, 2017

Dinner Music

Last night we dined in the garage. Our furniture is moved out so the guys can come and replace the floors that are water-damaged. The piano-which-needs-to-be-tuned is in the garage now, too. I found the Christmas lights that I bought half-off the day after Christmas two years ago. Luci learned the phrase, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."

At supper I asked (made) Luci play a piece on the piano. She said, "Just because we're making family memories, doesn't mean they're HAPPY memories." This is about as complaining as Luci gets. She's always been a little afraid of rocking the boat--when she was younger, she thought if she upset us, we'd give her away to someone else. Not sure if she still has that thought in her head. It was a big deal that she spoke up.

Oh, sweet girl. Don't you know that you'll be laughing about this very soon? If nothing else, you'll be laughing at dopey-old-mom for making us eat in the garage with the Christmas decorations while you played the piano. 🎄🎼

All throughout the month of November, National Adoption Month, I've posted this hashtag #wecouldhavemissedthis along with a photo of Luci. I am always thankful for Luci being in our lives. She's brought a ray of sunshine and hope that we didn't even know we needed. Even though her beginnings were tough, and the reason for needing to be adopted is because something went horribly wrong in the first place, we are always grateful to our Heavenly Father for this glorious blessing of Luci.


Thursday, November 09, 2017

Fear

This happened on this date in 2015, when Luci was 11.

This is National Adoption Month, or Highlight Adoption Month, or some such. So many thoughts on this--how I am so thankful for Luci's birth family choosing life for her, how the tragedy of losing her first family makes it possible for us to have this precious child, and the list goes on.
People who have not adopted don't always know what is just below the surface. For example, yesterday in Sunday school, one of the topics was "Fear." Kids shared what they were scared of. Luci told me she said, "Justin Bieber," which got some laughs.

"Mom, I didn't tell them what I'm really afraid of." 

What's that?

"You know. That I will never get to meet my China mama."

This photo is sweet, but no substitute for that mother love. 

Tuesday, November 07, 2017

Still so thankful!

Okay, y'all. This little part of our wood floor was damaged. It was *under* the hutch, unseen to us. However, the insurance folks tell us the usual thing is to replace it and whatever wood floor is attached to this, because matches are almost impossible.

This means almost the entire house! John says they will pack up everything for us, move it all, replace the flooring and move the stuff back. Amazing.

So, what I need to know is what do I watch out for? What do I need to do to prepare for this?

What a wonderful opportunity to *force* me to declutter.