Thirty Days of Thanks...

This photo should have been included when this was posted--it was in the wrong photo file. Santa made a visit to Kabul this week!

I am thankful for my husband, John. He is first, a man of God, second a great husband and father, and third, an American. Here he is last year in Kabul, Af gahn istan, serving either Thanksgiving dinner or Christmas dinner--I am not sure which. (all of these are repeat photos, sorry for that)
This is my favorite picture of John and the kids. This was Mother's Day, 2008, waiting for the photographer at the local volunteer firehouse. In January 2009, in Af ghan istan somewhere. Happy to do his job! John has this for his motto: If it needs doing, just do it. I think Nike stole it from him.
I am also thankful for all the volunteer service members in the US Armed Forces. Volunteers, people! So thankful they are out there, willing to fight the good fight.

Another thing I am thankful for: Xerox. Here is the site: Let's Say Thanks in Support of Our Troops. That website "gives you the opportunity to send a free printed postcard to U.S. military personnel stationed overseas...." You just select a postcard, include a message, your name and hometown, and click "send." Xerox will print it out and send it for you!

Luci-isms

Gradulate--what you do at the end of high school. You Gradulate.

Hippolo-poppadus--what you know as a Hippo.

Accident--How you speak; accent. As in, "Mary Poppins has an accident when she talks."

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Also, I am not sure how this homeschooling thing is working out.
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The other day, Luci asked me to roll out her Play-doh:
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Big and Round and Flat, Mommy. Just like the Earth.

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I am thankful for a bag of sugar. Yup, a 4-lb bag of sugar. (Have you noticed they aren't 5-lb bags anymore?) I ran out, and couldn't make chocolate syrup for the little Princess who lives here. Chocolate syrup is a must for milk, you know. So, on Monday morning, after JT's karate class, we headed to Aldi's. No way was I going into Wal-Mart for sugar and coming out with a buggy full of necessities (well, they'd be necessities to JT and Luci).
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But I couldn't find plain old white sugar! I found brown sugar and powdered sugar but no white sugar. Came home disappointed, and ready to explain the facts of life to Luci, as pertaining to chocolate syrup. Before having "the talk," I dug around in the cabinet for the third time and guess what I found? A bag of white sugar!
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Here's the recipe:

Better than Hershey's Chocolate Syrup

this is tweaked from the recipe that came with the Feingold materials.

1 cup sugar
1/2 cup cocoa
1/2 tsp. salt
3/4 cup water
1/2 tsp. vanilla
Mix sugar, cocoa, salt and water in saucepan. Heat until boiling, stirring constantly until everything dissolves. Remove from heat and add vanilla. When it has cooled down, pour into a clean chocolate syrup squeeze bottle.
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For a glass of chocolate milk, add 1-2 TBS syrup. Great on desserts and in coffee mochas, too.


If the syrup has little lumps in it, or develops a foamy top, strain it before storing. It only takes a second and makes everyone happier once it's on the ice cream.

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I am thankful for CHRIST, who saved me and gave me an eternity with OUR HEAVENLY FATHER.

I am thankful for videos like this one, which proclaim Christ. One line in this video that I especially like: Christmas is about Christ, and after 2,000 years, He's still intimidating people!

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A Clean Floor

That's what I'm thankful for! Seems silly, but it gave me joy to know that when Luci was potty training, and now, when another child is sick, it is easy to clean the floor. I am thankful that, when we were building this house, John let me choose this pre-finished wood flooring, and skip the carpet all-together. (Mom, I'm sure I mixed all the verb tenses up but I can't for the life of me figure out how else to say it. Sorry.)

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As always, I am thankful for the example that my parents and John's parents are. They have had long marriages and are all faithful to the Lord. And they are fun grandparents, just ask our kids. The photo collage shows John's folks on the left--John's dad Olen had a 56 year long marriage with Elrino (who passed away in 2002--you would've loved her, their photo is on the bottom), and is now married to Jeanne (photo on top)--what great folks they are. My parents are on the top right and of course I think they are tops. They've been married for 57 years now. Wow. I had to include the shot on the bottom right--John and me in younger days.

These photos are from photographs that are hanging in our "Hall of Fame" here in GreenHill.

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Luci signing her name (she's got "L" showing now) at Helen Keller's house, Ivy Green. This is the famous pump where Helen "awoke" and learned to sign "water." Photo from June 2008. (Luci's still able to wear that jumper and those crocs! Little girl, indeed)


I am so thankful to be here in Alabama, in a state where so many things have happened, and quite a bit close to where we live now. Definitely something to learn around every corner. Yesterday we went to LaGrange, the site where the first chartered college in Alabama stood until it was burned down in the Civil War (and I learned yesterday that some of my homeschool friends are still upset about that and would not let their kids stand on the "blue" side of the photo below).
I'm also thankful that we have indoor plumbing.
Good looking kids, don't you think? I sent John a postcard from this post office.
The infamous blue and gray picture...notice my boys glaring at each other...at least this time they were just acting. During the rest of the field trip they were quite nice.

Martha Stewart Quiz for Thanksgiving

You are undoubtedly
Roasted Root Vegetables

Take Martha Stewart's Quiz and see which Thanksgiving side dish you are. I am definitely NOT Roasted Root Vegetables. I bet she doesn't even have green bean casserole in her choice list! (Add 1/3 cup sliced almonds to that green bean casserole to make it the right way, according to John.)

Hey, Feingold friends: Did you know that French's French Fried Onions are now cleared for use on stage 1?

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Today I went to town (all by myself, gasp!) and got a prank call from a little girl who called herself "Mrs. Cuppy-Cuppy-Cupcake." She told me that I had won a brand new car, and then put her accomplice on the line.

I am thankful that each one of our kids has a good sense of humor.

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o my goodness! There's a red dot on the map from Moscow, Russian Federation!!

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Today's spotlight is on the LIBRARY. Our town re-built the library sometime between JT's birth and Luci coming. Not sure exactly when that transition took place, but wow, it is gorgeous now. Luci has her "school" there once a week. Mrs. Jessica has programs for children of all ages during the week. I am thankful for Mrs. Jessica and her preschool program. Jessica is a natural teacher--it is obvious she loves the children and what she does, and the kids love her, too. Here are some highlights from yesterday.
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The letter of the day was I. Luci brought a Christmas tree ornament with Idaho on it. She was the only one with Idaho! It's fun to try to find things that are unique for the letter of the day.
Singing is part of the fun--and yes, there are 4 big trees "growing" in the middle of the children's section! Really lovely.
Luci showing everyone her item of the day.
After the show-and-tell portion, the children get a little booklet to color, all about the letter of the day.
Of course, one of the best parts of the library time is getting to be with Kalyn and Jack! Here's JT with Jack. JT is so good with him--he followed Jack all around, keeping Jack out of trouble and out of harm's way.

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Luci's idea of relaxing. Now my mom knows that I still throw off my shoes and socks just where ever I happen to be. And so does Luci.

I am thankful for our church, Cross Point church of Christ. They are our family, since we have no family close by. A wonderful place to be. Lots of opportunities to serve.
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I am also thankful for John's military trips because when he's on them, there is extra so we can bless others more than we are usually able to do. Our church helps out each year by providing Christmas presents for some of the foster kids of Agape. Luci and I spent part of today shopping for one of the children. Agape did our home-study for Luci's adoption. So being able to help out, and Agape's help in Luci's arrival are part of my "Thanksgiving" today, too.
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I'm also thankful for Luci's attitude this year as we shopped: Last December, when we also were able to help out an Agape child, Luci wanted to keep everything, not giving any of it up for someone else. I had to remind her over and over that all of those things were for the little girl named Faith. She told me, "I want to be Faith!"
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Today Luci kept reminding me what Madison, our young lady wanted, and put her own interests aside. Very nice indeed to see her heart growing.
this picture is just Luci and JT being silly--but it shows Luci's gorgeous face.

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I'm thankful for folks like you who check in to see what shenanigans we are up to. You all have visited from Germany (hi, Audrey!), Japan (Sam, is that you?), Australia and South Africa (I think you are my Weaving Unit Study buddies), Spain and Denmark (maybe families with our Guizhou adopt yahoo group?), Israel, Canada (I know you are my Feingold friends) and from other exotic locations, like Boise, Idaho (hi, Nana and Papa!) and all other points in the USA (hi, Melodie in Virginia!). I love seeing the red dots. Two dots even came from China--wow! Makes me kinda giddy sometimes.
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One thing--I do wish that some of you who are living in someplace besides my house would sometimes leave a message. I'd love to know who you are. I find it fascinating, and so glad that I put that little map up there.

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Okay, now to reward you for checking in: You remember that video of the Walmart commercial, where the little boy asks for something for daddy--see Hanky Alert, below. Luci knows that Daddy is coming home a day or two before Christmas. Every time there is a wish to be made (blowing out candles, or the new star in the evening), she will wish "For Daddy to be HOME!"

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So after seeing that commercial, I ask her what she is going to ask Santa to bring her, knowing she will say "Bring Daddy HOME!"

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Wrong. She wants Santa to bring her a costume. What?! No Daddy?!

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"No, mama--Daddy will already be home!"

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Smart girl. Doesn't want to miss out on any presents.

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and one other--this one had me laughing so hard!

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JT had his karate class at the YMCA yesterday. I walk into the child watch room (the babysitting room) to get Luci. She had 3 of the kiddy chairs all lined up, and was lying on them, like they were a bed. With the other kids all around her.
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I asked, "what are you pretending, Luci? "
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"I'm having a baby."
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I am so thankful for this book, Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child. I don't know who first pointed me to it, but I am forever thankful.

We are dealing with separation anxiety with Luci--she's always been wary and often fearful when I leave her, even at Sunday school where she knows everyone, (nearly) everyone knows her, and where she's been going for four whole years and 2 months. The anxiety is greater with John gone, as you can imagine. Some folks, well-meaning I'm sure, tell me to let her cry it out, she'll get used to it, I'm being over-protective, ______ (you fill in the blank). Turns out listening to my gut on this was the best thing for Luci, and I will do what's right for her even when those well-meaning folks start rolling their eyes and giving me more advice. I'll roll my eyes right back and try to not tell them off. Or, at least I'll try to be civil when I'm giving them my opinion of their opinion.

I started out in this book looking at the chapters that deal with age she is now and back-tracked to the beginning. So far, every page has been helpful.

I made the "3 picture story" of her beginnings (yes, I know it has more than 3 pictures, and the Picasa site added one to make the collage even out). Some are taken from the TV set, as the video of her being handed over played. I made extra copies to laminate, as the author (Patty Cogen, M.A., Ed.D.) suggested--because the children are sure to lose them, rip them up, stuff them where they cannot be found, etc. So extras are needed for those eventualities.


The reaction she had to it was very interesting...she looked at it, listened to her story, and dropped it. Ran off. Even acted sort of upset about it. One point of the book (so far, I'm not done with it) was to bring up her adoption (not wait for her to bring it up!), because it is always a part of her, always on her mind, even when she is very quiet about it. So Saturday night, in passing, I asked her if she was mad that we took her away from China. A very small "Yes." We've been talking about her China-mama and China-daddy and her orphanage off and on ever since. Wow.

I wish every person who had anything to do with my daughter had to read this book.

Hanky Alert!!

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Neighbors! I am thankful for our neighbors. Yesterday they took JT and Luci for the afternoon, and I got to be by MYSELF. (Yeah, Bryan stayed here, but he was in the Man Cave playing a video game, so it was the same as being by myself.) I couldn't decide whether to take a nap or go grocery shopping. Or, go take a nap at the grocery store (that one had strong appeal!). I ended up getting some groceries and spending less than I normally do (another thing to be thankful for, little helpers were not sticking extra things into the buggy). Thank you, Butler Family!

In this same vein, I am thankful for all the people who've made this trip of John's bearable: the folks from church who were responsible for The 12 Days of Christmas last December; Diane, who took all three kids; the Cook's Pest Control people who made right on our mailbox; and several trips ago the people who helped empty our basement when it flooded (the Delano's and Woods' deserve golden crowns for that!), and JoAnne and the Hambly Family for taking children so I could have a little peace and Christmas shopping. And last, but certainly not least, the men who did the Bush Hogging in the field next to us on Wednesday, Veterans' Day--They did not charge us anything for our portion of it. Nothing. They just said "Thank you" to John for serving our country.

Our hill before:
and after, ready for a good snowfall and some sledding!

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I'm thankful for Tang Soo Do, that our YMCA offers it, and that JT has found something that he loves. He is really good at this. His instructor and the other black-belts who have gotten to know JT respect him (even at such a young age) and enjoy watching him perform. Today JT had his first pre-test for earning his black belt. Tang Soo!

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I am thankful that our kids get along.
Most of the time.
In public, anyway.

at a field trip--Indian Mound Museum, Florence.

making a movie
this is a pre-production meeting

being silly for mom

wearing Dad's army berets

before a soccer game

Luci-isms

Finda-my-ing Glass: Magnifying glass

Thor-nob-itdoor: Thermometer

Camouflage: ok, so she gets this one right every time. Must be because she has a daddy who wears camouflage!

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I am thankful for friends I've met through blogging. Some I've actually met in person, like Denna. Others are on "the list" to meet, and are close enough to someday get together, but we are just too busy...like Monica and Katie's mom (their blogs are private, or going private). Others are folks who've adopted daughters from Luci's province in China, or are using the same homeschool curriculum that we are, or are on the same Feingold diet for ADHD/ADD. All have taught me to be a better person, or entertained me, or allowed me the privilege to watch their families grow...sometimes, all 3 things happen at once.

It's that time of year again...

It's time for Jib Jab!

I love this story!

Muggers Return Wallet After Seeing Army ID

MILWAUKEE — A Milwaukee Army reservist's military identification earned him some street cred Tuesday, when he says four men who mugged him at gunpoint returned his belongings and thanked him for his service after finding the ID.

The 21-year-old University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee student said he was walking home from work about 1:15 a.m. Tuesday when he was pulled into an alley and told to lay face down and with a gun to his neck. Four men took his wallet, $16, keys, his cell phone and even a PowerBar wrapper from his pants pockets, he said.

But the hostile tone quickly changed when one of the robbers, whom the reservist presumed was the leader, saw an Army ID in the wallet. The robber told the others to return the items and they put most of his belongings on the ground next to him, including the wrapper, the reservist said.

"The guy continued to say throughout the situation that he respects what I do and at one point he actually thanked me and he actually apologized," said the reservist, who asked not to be identified Tuesday because the robbers still had his keys.

The reservist said he asked the men, who all had hoods or hats covering their faces, if he could get up and they said he could before starting to walk away.

"The leader of the group actually walked back, gave me a quick fist bump, which was very strange," he said.

Milwaukee police spokeswoman Anne E. Schwartz said the reservist is credible and that officers still were looking for the suspects Tuesday.

The reservist didn't realize until later that his keys were not with him and he doesn't know if the robbers intended to keep those, he said. Still, he said he feels lucky.

"I'm just kind of awe struck that everything was given back to me due to just being in the military, " he said. "I realize in pretty much every other situation that wouldn't happen."

He said he's never been deployed, only having signed up for the Army Reserves about a year ago. He said he is the first person in his immediate family to join the military.

Schwartz said there were two other incidents within 40 minutes in the same area and police suspect the four men were involved in all of them. The robbers were unsuccessful at 12:35 a.m., when the 39-year-old man they approached ran into the street and started screaming.

Schwartz said within 10 minutes of that they approached a 47-year-old man — a convicted burglar who had a Department of Corrections inmate ID in his wallet — ordered him to the ground and pointed a gun at him. They took his wallet, apparently unfazed by that ID.

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Today, as ever, I am thankful for the men and women who have served and sacrificed and made this country of ours GREAT.

John and I both grew up in families where the United States of America was (and is still) honored. Both families have strong ties to the military, with many cousins, uncles, and a few women, too, wearing the uniform.

Now, to borrow a line from my cyber-friend, Monica--

Some heroes wear capes....MINE WEARS COMBAT BOOTS!

my favorite soldier

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I am thankful for cell phones. Mine is in the car--this is JT's pay-as-you-go version. I had never seen the need for a cell phone until September 11th happened. We knew John would be called up; it was a matter of when (we just didn't know how often!). So, the Sunday after September 11, I got a Verizon phone from Radio Shack. A cell phone would mean we could have contact, and, God forbid, I could be reached if anything bad happened. The kids and I have traveled from Alabama to Idaho to Florida to South Carolina and everywhere in-between. Having the cell phone gives me some peace of mind for safety (I've called AAA a couple of times, and 9-1-1 twice) and John is able to call and talk to us wherever we happen to be. Cell phones are wonderful!

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I am thankful for traditions, this one in particular. Every day in November, each person here (even visitors) writes down something he is thankful for and dates and signs the leaf. Every day is something different--you can't say the same thing twice (and for the boys, they can only list one video game all month). Then it's added to our tree. The tree is on our pantry door, affixed with velcro on the inside of the door. We use sticky-tak stuff to stick the leaves on, so we can remove them, save our favorites, and use the tree again next year. This tree has about 40 leaves on it. Imagine how crowded with blessings it will be by Thanksgiving!

Homemade Caramel!

Feingold is so much fun. I've learned to make marshmallows, and now here's caramel sauce. Very simple, too! Here's the recipe I used: Caramel Sauce from Simply Recipes.

There are only three ingredients: sugar, butter and cream.

And today, Luci found this. She's convinced it is a dinosaur tooth (but I don't think so). I love her imagination.

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I am thankful for people like Tongginator's Momma, who writes so well on adoption. She has made me think quite a bit. So has Katie-bug's Mom. I am hoping to meet Katie and her family someday; they are actually not too far from us.

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Bryan. My first born. The one who made me Mommy. Bryan is ready to take on the world. He's a great big brother and a wonderful son. He's not too enthusiastic about school work...but let him go on something he loves, like film-making, and he's another Steven Spielberg in the making. We can't wait to see how you are going to change your part of the world, Bryan!

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I am thankful for J.T. He has my heart all tied up. He loves his daddy the fiercest of all our children. He has a great love for Luci, too, and plays so patiently with her. J.T. was my cuddly, happy baby. He now makes the best puns and is so creative.

After a week of sun in Vero Beach.

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I'm thankful for a little girl who says Luci-isms and Luci-Speak like
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"I got a scrap on my knee." (scrape)
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"Tiana's prince is named Ravine." (Tiana is the newest Disney princess and her prince is NAVEEN.)
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"But mama, we have to go into McDonald's (instead of going through the drive-through) because there are people in there who want to meet me!"

Wow, I love her! Can't imagine life without Luci. What if we'd never gone to that adoption meeting.....

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Homeschooling--so thankful that we are allowed to homeschool, and for the support of my husband in this endeavor. Here is a shot of an experiment done yesterday, demonstrating the density of different items. We are using Apologia Science this year. So far, so good with it.

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I am beyond thankful that John's trips this weekend went safely. He was out on Saturday and Sunday.

John's Sunday Trip

John went out this weekend. Here are some pictures from the Sunday trip. It was somewhere north of Kabul. Most of the photos were taken from a moving vehicle and through that thick safety glass. I thought they were flying in helicopters out to the site--glad I didn't know they were going in a convoy, because I don't think I would have been able to sleep had I known.

Make a Smilebox slideshow

November 2

So thankful today for the GORGEOUS weather.

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This idea comes from NaBloPoMo, National Blog Posting Month. I think the 30 days of thanks started last year. I am not really sure. Here is the post that started many, many bloggers to post every day. I'm going to try it; I hope you will, too. If you do, please leave me a message so I can read your blog everyday!

I am thankful to live in a country where I can write whatever I choose, where thinking and speaking is allowed.